Kutibulala, Kutilimata, Kanye Nemikhuba Yekudla Lengakavami

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Inhloso Yesimiso
Sikukhatsalela kakhulu kuphepha kwebantfu labasebentisa tinhlelo tetfu. Sibonisana njalo nabocwephesha etindzabeni tekutibulala, kutilimata kanye nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami, kute sitfole kwatiswa lokutsintsa imitsetfo yetfu nekutsatsa sinyatselo, futsi sisebentisana netinhlangano letisemhlabeni wonkhe kute sinikete lusito kubantfu labacindzetelekile.
Ngisho noma singabavumeli bantfu kutsi bahalalise noma bakhutsate kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, ngemabomu nobe ngeliphutsa, siyabavumela kutsi bacoce ngaletihloko ngobe sifuna kutsi tinhlelo tetfu tibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi bafune lusito kulomunye nalomunye. Singaphindze sibeke imincele kuze kubukwe bantfu labadzala, labaneminyaka lengu-18 kuya etulu budzala:
Sisusa noma ngukuphi kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, lokufaka ekhatsi kwatiswa kwebuciko njengetitfombe letihlekisako noma imifanekiso kanye nanome ngukuphi kwatiswa kwekutilimata lokusitfombe, kungakhatsaliseki kutsi kukusiphi simo. Siyakususa kwatiswa lokuneticondziso tekwehla kakhulu emtimbeni Siphindze sisuse kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngebantfu lebebatibulala nome labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kanye nemifanekiso yalokwentekako ngesikhatsi umuntfu atibulala noma atilimata. Kwatiswa lokuvunyelwe lokumayelana nekwelulama ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni, nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kodvwa lokungaba netitfombe letingacansula, (njengesilondza leselashiwe) kubekwa ngemuva kwe-screen lesisecwayiso kute kungakhubi labanye futsi senta kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala labaneminyaka lengu-18 nangetulu budzala.
Nangabe bantfu bafaka noma bafuna kwatiswa kwekutibulala, kutilimata, nome kwemikhuba lengakavami yekudla, sitabacondzisa etinhlanganweni tendzawo letingabasita futsi nangabe licembu letfu leLusito Lwemacembu likhatsatekile ngengoti lengahle yenteke masinyane sitawuchumana nebelusito loluphutfumako kuleyo ndzawo kute sibatfolele lusito. Kute utfole imininingwane leyengetiwe, vakashela Indzawo Yekuphepha KaMeta.
Mayelana nekwatiswa lokuvela bukhoma, bocwephesha basitjele kutsi nangabe lotsite atsi ucabanga kutibulala eluhlelweni loluvela bukhoma, kufanele sikuyekele lokwatiswa sikhatsi lesidze lesingasikhona, ngoba umuntfu nakacitsa sikhatsi lesidze akhuluma kukhamera, kuba nematfuba lamanyenti ekutsi umngani noma lilunga lemndeni lishayele belusito loluphutfumako. Nobe kunjalo, kute kuncishiswe ingoti yekutsi kube nemtselela lomubi kulabanye ngekubukela lokwatiswa, sitakumisa kusakatwa kwako bukhoma lapho nje loyo muntfu sekafuna kusitsatsa mbamba lesinyatselo. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kunoma ngusiphi simo, sitawutsintsana netinhlelo telusito loluphutfumako nangabe sitfola kutsi lotsite usengotini lesheshako yekutilimata.
Asikuvumeli:
  • Kwatiswa lokutfutfukisa, kukhutsate, kuchumanise, nome kunikete ticondziso tekutibulala, kutilimata, nome temikhuba yekudla lengakavami.
  • Kwatiswa lokukuveta ebaleni kwetama kutibulala, kutilimata nome titfombe temikhuba yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokuveta umuntfu lowetama kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
  • Titfombe tebantfu natisakatwe kanye kanye netintfo letihlotjaniswa netinkinga tekudla
  • Kwatiswa lokunake kakhulu kukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesishobele ekhatsi, umgogoda lophumele ngephandle, siphanga, ematsambo labonakalako emikhonweni nome emilenteni nome tihlatsi letifacakile nakusakatwe kanye kanye nemagama lahlotjaniswa netinkinga tekudla
  • Kwatiswa lokuneticondziso tekwehla kakhulu emtimbeni
  • Kwatiswa lokuvuma imikhuba yekwehla lokukhulu emtimbeni nakusakatwa kanye nemigomo lehambisana nendlela yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokuneticondziso tekutincisha kudla lokutsite nakusakatwa kanye nemigomo lehambisana nendlela yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngalabatsintsekako noma labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni noma emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami lokungenteka beyatiwa noma lokutsiwa babhekene nekwetama kutibulala, kutilimata noma netinkinga tekudla
  • Titfombe letiveta kushintjwa kwemtimba (sibonelo: kutibhala, kutisika, kutibhala ngekutisika, kutishaya, nalokunye) nakusakatwa endzabeni lemayelana nekwetama kutibulala nome kutilimata
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifake secwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye. Siphindze sibeke imincele kuze kubukwe bantfu labadzala, labaneminyaka lengu-18 kuya etulu:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni esimeni sekwelashwa.
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma letinye titfombe tekutilimata letingatfusi letivela esimeni sekutilimata, kutibulala noma lesikhombisa kululama
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo, tikhala ematsangeni, tingculu, sisu, umgogodla lophumile, siphanga, ematsambo labonakalako emkhonweni noma emilenteni noma tihlatsi letimuncene esimweni sekululama
Kulokwatisa lokulandzelako, siniketa bantfu lusito futsi sente kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala labaneminyaka lengu-18 nangetulu budzala kuphela:
  • Kuvuma lokubhaliwe nome ngemlomo kutibulala, kutilimata nome kutsi unenkinga yekudla.
  • Emavi langacaci, langase agudlisele ekutibulaleni noma akhulume ngako (lokufaka ekhatsi emahlaya noma titfombe lotisebentisa ngemvume lokumayelana nesimo lesidzabukisako, kucindzeteleka, kukhuluma ngekufa njengekuphunyuka, noma lokuvela emasikweni latsandvwako lokugcizelela imicabango lekabi nalebanga kukhatsateka) esimeni sekutibulala noma kutilimata.
Kulokwatisa lokulandzelako, sente kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala labaneminyaka lengu-18 nangetulu budzala kuphela:
  • Kuhlekisa nome kulahla umcondvo wekutibulala, kutilimata nome tinkinga tekudla
  • Kulandzisa lokuchaza ngekutibulala ngemininingwane lengetulu kwekucamba ligama noma kukhuluma ngesento noma imiphumela
  • Kuvuma kwehla ngalokwecile emtimbeni
KuleTimiso Tawonkhewonkhe letilandzelako, sidzinga imininingwane leyengetiwe futsi/noma lokutsite lokufakiwe kute sitsatse sinyatselo:
  • Singawususa umlayeto wekutibulala nasesicinisekisile ngekutibulala noma kwetama kutibulala. Setama kutfola imilayelo yekwetama kutibulala sisebentisa tindlela letehlukehlukene, letifaka ekhatsi, kodvwa hhayi loku kuphela:
    • Ticelo telilunga lemndeni nome ummeleli wetemtsetfo,
    • Imibiko levela kubetindzaba, kubemtsetfo, nome kuleminye imitfombo lesisebentisana nayo (sibonelo: tinhlangano tahulumende, ema-NGO), nome kule Lifomu Lekuchumana Lelinekwatiswa Lokumayelana Nekutibulala nome Lifomu Lekuchumana Ka-Instagram.
    • Siyatinaka timphawu letiba khona nangabe bantfu bangekho etinhlelweni tetfu tekuvuma kukwenta noma tekukhutsata kutibulala, kutilimata, kuba nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla noma kwehla kakhulu emtimbeni lokwentiwa ngulosebentisa tinhlelo tetfu kuze silandzelele kutsi kukhona yini lakufake etinhlelweni taka-Meta lokungaba nebungoti kulabanye.
Inhloso Yesimiso
Sikukhatsalela kakhulu kuphepha kwebantfu labasebentisa tinhlelo tetfu. Sibonisana njalo nabocwephesha etindzabeni tekutibulala, kutilimata kanye nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami, kute sitfole kwatiswa lokutsintsa imitsetfo yetfu nekutsatsa sinyatselo, futsi sisebentisana netinhlangano letisemhlabeni wonkhe kute sinikete lusito kubantfu labacindzetelekile.
Ngisho noma singabavumeli bantfu kutsi bahalalise noma bakhutsate kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, ngemabomu nobe ngeliphutsa, siyabavumela kutsi bacoce ngaletihloko ngobe sifuna kutsi tinhlelo tetfu tibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi bafune lusito kulomunye nalomunye. Singaphindze sibeke imincele kuze kubukwe bantfu labadzala, labaneminyaka lengu-18 kuya etulu budzala:
Sisusa noma ngukuphi kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, lokufaka ekhatsi kwatiswa kwebuciko njengetitfombe letihlekisako noma imifanekiso kanye nanome ngukuphi kwatiswa kwekutilimata lokusitfombe, kungakhatsaliseki kutsi kukusiphi simo. Siyakususa kwatiswa lokuneticondziso tekwehla kakhulu emtimbeni Siphindze sisuse kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngebantfu lebebatibulala nome labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kanye nemifanekiso yalokwentekako ngesikhatsi umuntfu atibulala noma atilimata. Kwatiswa lokuvunyelwe lokumayelana nekwelulama ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni, nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kodvwa lokungaba netitfombe letingacansula, (njengesilondza leselashiwe) kubekwa ngemuva kwe-screen lesisecwayiso kute kungakhubi labanye futsi senta kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala labaneminyaka lengu-18 nangetulu budzala.
Nangabe bantfu bafaka noma bafuna kwatiswa kwekutibulala, kutilimata, nome kwemikhuba lengakavami yekudla, sitabacondzisa etinhlanganweni tendzawo letingabasita futsi nangabe licembu letfu leLusito Lwemacembu likhatsatekile ngengoti lengahle yenteke masinyane sitawuchumana nebelusito loluphutfumako kuleyo ndzawo kute sibatfolele lusito. Kute utfole imininingwane leyengetiwe, vakashela Indzawo Yekuphepha KaMeta.
Mayelana nekwatiswa lokuvela bukhoma, bocwephesha basitjele kutsi nangabe lotsite atsi ucabanga kutibulala eluhlelweni loluvela bukhoma, kufanele sikuyekele lokwatiswa sikhatsi lesidze lesingasikhona, ngoba umuntfu nakacitsa sikhatsi lesidze akhuluma kukhamera, kuba nematfuba lamanyenti ekutsi umngani noma lilunga lemndeni lishayele belusito loluphutfumako. Nobe kunjalo, kute kuncishiswe ingoti yekutsi kube nemtselela lomubi kulabanye ngekubukela lokwatiswa, sitakumisa kusakatwa kwako bukhoma lapho nje loyo muntfu sekafuna kusitsatsa mbamba lesinyatselo. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kunoma ngusiphi simo, sitawutsintsana netinhlelo telusito loluphutfumako nangabe sitfola kutsi lotsite usengotini lesheshako yekutilimata.
Asikuvumeli:
  • Kwatiswa lokutfutfukisa, kukhutsate, kuchumanise, nome kunikete ticondziso tekutibulala, kutilimata, nome temikhuba yekudla lengakavami.
  • Kwatiswa lokukuveta ebaleni kwetama kutibulala, kutilimata nome titfombe temikhuba yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokuveta umuntfu lowetama kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
  • Titfombe tebantfu natisakatwe kanye kanye netintfo letihlotjaniswa netinkinga tekudla
  • Kwatiswa lokunake kakhulu kukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesishobele ekhatsi, umgogoda lophumele ngephandle, siphanga, ematsambo labonakalako emikhonweni nome emilenteni nome tihlatsi letifacakile nakusakatwe kanye kanye nemagama lahlotjaniswa netinkinga tekudla
  • Kwatiswa lokuneticondziso tekwehla kakhulu emtimbeni
  • Kwatiswa lokuvuma imikhuba yekwehla lokukhulu emtimbeni nakusakatwa kanye nemigomo lehambisana nendlela yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokuneticondziso tekutincisha kudla lokutsite nakusakatwa kanye nemigomo lehambisana nendlela yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngalabatsintsekako noma labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni noma emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami lokungenteka beyatiwa noma lokutsiwa babhekene nekwetama kutibulala, kutilimata noma netinkinga tekudla
  • Titfombe letiveta kushintjwa kwemtimba (sibonelo: kutibhala, kutisika, kutibhala ngekutisika, kutishaya, nalokunye) nakusakatwa endzabeni lemayelana nekwetama kutibulala nome kutilimata
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifake secwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye. Siphindze sibeke imincele kuze kubukwe bantfu labadzala, labaneminyaka lengu-18 kuya etulu:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni esimeni sekwelashwa.
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma letinye titfombe tekutilimata letingatfusi letivela esimeni sekutilimata, kutibulala noma lesikhombisa kululama
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo, tikhala ematsangeni, tingculu, sisu, umgogodla lophumile, siphanga, ematsambo labonakalako emkhonweni noma emilenteni noma tihlatsi letimuncene esimweni sekululama
Kulokwatisa lokulandzelako, siniketa bantfu lusito futsi sente kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala labaneminyaka lengu-18 nangetulu budzala kuphela:
  • Kuvuma lokubhaliwe nome ngemlomo kutibulala, kutilimata nome kutsi unenkinga yekudla.
  • Emavi langacaci, langase agudlisele ekutibulaleni noma akhulume ngako (lokufaka ekhatsi emahlaya noma titfombe lotisebentisa ngemvume lokumayelana nesimo lesidzabukisako, kucindzeteleka, kukhuluma ngekufa njengekuphunyuka, noma lokuvela emasikweni latsandvwako lokugcizelela imicabango lekabi nalebanga kukhatsateka) esimeni sekutibulala noma kutilimata.
Kulokwatisa lokulandzelako, sente kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala labaneminyaka lengu-18 nangetulu budzala kuphela:
  • Kuhlekisa nome kulahla umcondvo wekutibulala, kutilimata nome tinkinga tekudla
  • Kulandzisa lokuchaza ngekutibulala ngemininingwane lengetulu kwekucamba ligama noma kukhuluma ngesento noma imiphumela
  • Kuvuma kwehla ngalokwecile emtimbeni
KuleTimiso Tawonkhewonkhe letilandzelako, sidzinga imininingwane leyengetiwe futsi/noma lokutsite lokufakiwe kute sitsatse sinyatselo:
  • Singawususa umlayeto wekutibulala nasesicinisekisile ngekutibulala noma kwetama kutibulala. Setama kutfola imilayelo yekwetama kutibulala sisebentisa tindlela letehlukehlukene, letifaka ekhatsi, kodvwa hhayi loku kuphela:
    • Ticelo telilunga lemndeni nome ummeleli wetemtsetfo,
    • Imibiko levela kubetindzaba, kubemtsetfo, nome kuleminye imitfombo lesisebentisana nayo (sibonelo: tinhlangano tahulumende, ema-NGO), nome kule Lifomu Lekuchumana Lelinekwatiswa Lokumayelana Nekutibulala nome Lifomu Lekuchumana Ka-Instagram.
    • Siyatinaka netimphawu letiba khona nangabe bantfu bangekho etinhlelweni tetfu tekuvuma kukwenta noma tekukhutsata kutibulala, kutilimata, kuba nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla noma kwehla kakhulu emtimbeni lokwentiwa ngulosebentisa tinhlelo tetfu kuze silandzelele kutsi kukhona yini lakufake etinhlelweni taka-Meta lokungaba nebungoti kulabanye.
Inhloso Yesimiso
Sikukhatsalela kakhulu kuphepha kwebantfu labasebentisa tinhlelo tetfu. Sibonisana njalo nabocwephesha etindzabeni tekutibulala, kutilimata kanye nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami, kute sitfole kwatiswa lokutsintsa imitsetfo yetfu nekutsatsa sinyatselo, futsi sisebentisana netinhlangano letisemhlabeni wonkhe kute sinikete lusito kubantfu labacindzetelekile.
Ngisho noma singabavumeli bantfu kutsi ngemabomu nobe ngeliphutsa, bahalalise noma bakhutsate kutibulala, kutilimata nome kuba nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla, siyabavumela kutsi bacoce ngaletihloko ngobe sifuna kutsi tinhlelo tetfu tibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma khona ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi bafune lusito kulomunye nalomunye. Singahle siphindze sivumele kutsi lokwatiswa kubonwe kuphela bantfu labadzala labaneminyaka lengu- 18 nangetulu.
Sisusa noma ngukuphi kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala, kutilimata nome kuba nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla, lokufaka ekhatsi lokuyinganekwane njengema-memes noma imifanekiso kanye nanome ngukuphi kwatiswa kwekutilimata lokwetfusako, ngisho noma kukusiphi simo.Siyakususa kwatiswa lokuneticondziso temkhuba wekwehla kakhulu emtimbeni. Siphindze sisuse kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngebantfu lebebatibulala nome labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni nome emikhubeni lengakavami yekudla, kanye nemifanekiso yalokwentekako ngesikhatsi umuntfu atibulala noma atilimata. Kwatiswa lokuvunyelwe lokumayelana nekwelulama ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni, nome ekubeni nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla, kodvwa lokungaba netitfombe letingaphatamisa, (njengelinceba lelipholile) kubekwa ngemuva kwesecwayiso futsi sitakwenta kutsi kubonwe kuphela bantfu labadzala labaneminyaka lengu-18 nangetulu.
Nangabe bantfu bafaka noma bafuna kwatiswa lokuhlobene nekutibulala, kutilimata, noma imikhuba lengakavami yekudla, sitabacondzisa etinhlanganweni tendzawo letingabasita futsi nangabe licembu letfu leLusito Lwemacembu likhatsatekile ngengoti lengahle yenteke masinyane sitawuchumana nebelusito loluphutfumako kuleyondzawo kute sibatfolele lusito. Kute utfole imininingwane leyengetiwe, vakashela Indzawo Yekuphepha KaMeta.
Mayelana nekwatiswa lokuvela bukhoma, bocwephesha basitjele kutsi nangabe lotsite atsi ucabanga kutibulala eluhlelweni loluvela bukhoma, kufanele sikuyekele lokwatiswa sikhatsi lesidze lesingasikhona, ngoba umuntfu nakacitsa sikhatsi lesidze akhuluma kukhamera, kuba nematfuba lamanyenti ekutsi umngani noma lilunga lemndeni lishayele belusito loluphutfumako. Nobe kunjalo, kute kuncishiswe ingoti yekutsi kube nemtselela lomubi kulabanye ngekubukela lokwatiswa, sitakumisa kusakatwa kwako bukhoma lapho nje loyo muntfu sekafuna kusitsatsa mbamba lesinyatselo. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kunoma ngusiphi simo, sitawutsintsana nebelusito loluphutfumako nasitfola kutsi lotsite utatilimata ngekushesha.
UngakufakiAsikuvumeliloku:
  • Kwatiswa lokukhangisa, kukhutsate, kuchumanise, nome kunikete ticondziso tekutibulala, kutilimata, nome temikhuba yekudla lengakavami.
  • Kwatiswa lokukuveta ebaleni kutibulala, kutilimata, kanyenoma kuba nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla
  • Kwatiswa lokuveta umuntfu lowetame kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
  • Titfombe tebantfu natisakatwe kanye nemigomo lehambisana nekuba nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa kakhulu timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumele,noma siphanga, ematsambo labonakalako emikhonweni noma emilenteni noma tihlatsi letifacakile nakusakatwe nemigomo lehambisana nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla
  • Kwatiswa lokucuketse ticondziso temkhuba wekwehla kakhulu emtimbeninangendlela lengenamphilo nakusakatwa kanye nemigomo lehambisana nekuba nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla
  • Kwatiswa lokuvuma imikhuba yekwehla kakhulu emtimbeni nakusakatwa kanye nemigomo lehambisana nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokuneticondziso tekutincisha kudla lokutsite nakusakatwa nemigomo lehambisana nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla
  • Kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngalabatsintsekako noma labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni noma ekubeni nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla lokungenteka bayatiwa noma lokutsiwa bakwentile noma bake betama kutibulala,noma kutilimata noma kuba nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla
  • Titfombe letiveta kushintjwa kwemtimba (sibonelo: i-tattoo, kuwubhobosa, kuwudvweba, kutishaya, nalokunye) nakusakatwa kulokumayelana nekutibulala nome kutilimata
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifake secwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye. Siphindze sibeke imincele kuze kubukwe bantfu labadzala, labaneminyaka lengu-18 kuya etulu:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni kutekwelapha.
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma letinye titfombe tekutilimata letingetfusi letivela esimeni sekutilimata, kutibulala noma sekululama.
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, umgogodla lokhukhumele, tiphanga nangabe lomuntfu elulama.
Kulokwatiswa lokulandzelako, sifaka secwayiso kute bantfu bati kutsi kungabaphatsa kabi labanye:
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma letinye titfombe tekutilimata letingasito letetfusako esimeni sekutilimata, kutibulala noma sekululama.
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumele noma tiphanga nangabe lomuntfu elulama.
Sibaniketa lusito bantfu labafake lokubhaliwe noma lokushiwo ngelivi lapho bavuma khona kutsi batilimata, kufaka ekhatsiKuloku lokulandzelako, sibaniketa lusito bantfu, futsi senta kutsi kubonwe ngulabana-18 budzala nangetulu kuphela:
  • Kuvuma lokubhaliwe nome ngemlomo kutibulala, kutilimata nome kuba nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla.
  • Kubulawa kwesigulane/kusitwa ekutibulaleni.
  • Kutilimata.
  • Imikhuba yekudla lengakavami.
  • Emavi langacaci, langase agudlisele ekutibulaleni noma akhulume ngako (lokufaka ekhatsi ema-memes noma titfombe letigciniwe letibhadalelwako letimayelana nekuva buhlungu lobukhulu noma kucindzeteleka, kukhuluma ngekufa njengendlela yekuphuma enkingeni, noma lokuvela emasikweni latsandvwako lokugcizelela imicabango lekabi nalebanga kukhatsateka) ) esimeni sekutibulala noma kutilimata.
Lokwatisa lokulandzelako sente kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala labaneminyaka lengu-18 nangetulu budzala kuphela:
  • Kuhlekisa noma kulahla umcondvo wekufuna kutibulala, kutilimata noma kuba nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla
  • Kulandzisa lokuchaza kabanti ngekutibulala lokwendlulela ngale kwaleligama nje noma lokukhuluma ngalesento noma imiphumela
  • Kuvuma umkhuba wekwehla kakhulu emtimbeni
KuleTimiso Tawonkhewonkhe letilandzelako, sidzinga imininingwane leyengetiwe futsi/noma lokutsite lokufakiwe kuze sitsatse sinyatselo:
  • Singawususa umlayeto wekutibulala nasesicinisekisile ngekutibulala noma kwetama kutibulala. Setama kutfola imilayelo yekwetama kutibulala sisebentisa tindlela letehlukehlukene, letifaka ekhatsi, kodvwa hhayi loku kuphela:
Ngalokubuketa, sengeta imininingwane esimisweni setfu mayelana nekutsi ngukuphi kwatiswa lesingakuvumeli kutsi kubonwe Bantfwana Labaseminyakeni Yekutfomba kanye nekutsi senta njani ngekwatiswa lokuhlobene nekutincisha kudla kanye nemikhuba yekwehla kakhulu emtimbeni.
Inhloso Yesimiso
Sikukhatsalela kakhulu kuphepha kwebantfu labasebentisa tinhlelo tetfu. Sibonisana njalo nabocwephesha etindzabeni tekutibulala, kutilimata kanye nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami, kute sitfole kwatiswa lokutsintsa imitsetfo yetfu nekutsatsa sinyatselo, futsi sisebentisana netinhlangano letisemhlabeni wonkhe kute sinikete lusito kubantfu labacindzetelekile.
Ngisho noma singabavumeli bantfu kutsi bahalalise noma bakhutsate kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, ngemabomu nobe ngeliphutsa, siyabavumela kutsi bacoce ngaletihloko ngobe sifuna kutsi tinhlelo tetfu tibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi bafune lusito kulomunye nalomunye.
Sisusa noma ngukuphi kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, lokufaka ekhatsi kwatiswa kwebuciko njengetitfombe lesihlekisako noma umfanekiso kanye nanome ngukuphi kwatiswa kwekutilimata lokusitfombe, kungakhatsaliseki kutsi kukusiphi simo. Siphindze sisuse kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngebantfu lebebatibulala nome labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kanye nemifanekiso yalokwentekako ngesikhatsi umuntfu atibulala noma atilimata. Kwatiswa lokuvunyelwe lokumayelana nekwelulama ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni, nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kodvwa lokungaba netitfombe letingacansula, (njengesilondza leselashiwe) kubekwa ngemuva kwe-screen kute kungakhubi labanye.
Nangabe bantfu bafaka noma bafuna kwatiswa lokuhlobene nekutibulala, kutilimata, nome imikhuba lengakavami yekudla, sitabacondzisa etinhlanganweni tendzawo letingabasita futsi nangabe licembu letfu leLusito Lwemacembu likhatsatekile ngengoti lengahle yenteke masinyane sitawuchumana nebelusito loluphutfumako kuleyondzawo kute sibatfolele lusito. Kute utfole imininingwane leyengetiwe, vakashela I-FacebookI-Meta Indzawo Yekuphepha.
Ngalokuphatselene nalokudlala bukhoma, bocwephesha basitjele kutsi nangabe lotsite atsi ufuna kutibulala, kufanele sikuyekele lokwatiswa sikhatsi lesenele, ngoba kulesikhatsi umuntfu lasicitsa akhuluma kukhamera, manyenti ematfuba ekutsi umngani noma emalunga emndeni ashayele belusito loluphutfumako. Nobe kunjalo, kute kuncishiswe ingoti yekutsi kube nemphumela lomubi kulabanye ngekubukela lokwatiswa, sitakumisa kudlala kwako bukhoma lapho loyo muntfu sekafuna kukwenta mbamba lokutibulala. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kunoma ngusiphi simo, sitawutsintsana nebelusito loluphutfumako nasitfola kutsi lotsite utatilimata ngekushesha.
Ungafaki:
Kwatiswa lokutfutfukisa, kukhutsate, kuchumanise, nome kunikete ticondziso tekutibulala, kutilimata, nome temikhuba yekudla lengakavami.
  • Kwatiswa lokukuveta ebaleni kwetama kutibulala, kutilimata, netitfombe temikhuba yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokuveta umuntfu lowetama kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
  • Kwatiswa lokunake kakhulu kukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesishobele ekhatsi, noma umgogodla noma siphanga lokuphumele ngaphandle nakusakatwa nemigomo lehlobene nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokuneticondziso ngekwehla lokukhulu emtimbeni nangendlela lete imphilo nakusakatwa kanye nemigomo lehambisana nendlela yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngalabatsintsekako noma labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni noma emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami lokungenteka bayatiwa noma lokutsiwa bake betama kutibulala noma kutilimata
  • Titfombe letiveta kushintjwa kwemtimba (sibonelo: i-tattoo, kuwubhobosa, kuwudvweba, kutishaya, nalokunye) nakusakatwa kulokumayelana nekutibulala nome kutilimata
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifake secwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye. Siphindze sibeke imincele kuze kubukwe bantfu labadzala, labaneminyaka lengu-18 kuya etulu:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni kutekwelapha.
Kulokwatiswa lokulandzelako, sifaka secwayiso kute bantfu bati kutsi kungabaphatsa kabi labanye:
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma letinye titfombe tekutilimata letingatfusi letivela esimeni sekutilimata, kutibulala noma lesikhombisa kululama.
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumukile noma tiphanga nangabe lomuntfu elulama.
Sibaniketa lusito bantfu labafake lokubhaliwe noma lokushiwo ngelivi lapho bavuma khona kutsi batilimata, kufaka ekhatsi:
  • Kutibulala.
  • Kubulawa kwesigulane/kusitwa ekutibulaleni.
  • Kutilimata.
  • Kuba netinkinga tekudla,
  • Emavi langacaci lokungenteka agudlisele ekutibulaleni noma akhulume ngako (kufaka ekhatsi ema-memes noma titfombe letigciniwe letibhadalelwako letiveta kuva buhlungu lobukhulu noma kucindzeteleka) esimeni sekutibulala noma sekutilimata.
KuleTimiso Tawonkhewonkhe letilandzelako, sidzinga imininingwane leyengetiwe futsi/noma lokutsite lokufakiwe kuze sitsatse sinyatselo:
  • Singawususa umlayeto wekutibulala nasesicinisekisile ngekutibulala noma kwetama kutibulala. Setama kutfola imilayelo yekwetama kutibulala sisebentisa tindlela letehlukehlukene, letifaka ekhatsi, kodvwa hhayi loku kuphela:
Inhloso Yesimiso
Sikukhatsalela kakhulu kuphepha kwebantfu labasebentisa tinhlelo tetfu. Sibonisana njalo nabocwephesha etindzabeni tekutibulala, kutilimata kanye nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami, kute sitfole kwatiswa lokutsintsa imitsetfo yetfu nekutsatsa sinyatselo, futsi sisebentisana netinhlangano letisemhlabeni wonkhe kute sinikete lusito kubantfu labacindzetelekile.
Ngisho noma singabavumeli bantfu kutsi bahalalise noma bakhutsate kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, ngemabomu nobe ngeliphutsa, siyabavumela kutsi bacoce ngaletihloko ngobe sifuna kutsi tinhlelo tetfu tibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi bafune lusito kulomunye nalomunye.
Sisusa noma ngukuphi kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, lokufaka ekhatsi kwatiswa kwebuciko njengetitfombe lesihlekisako noma umfanekiso kanye nanome ngukuphi kwatiswa kwekutilimata lokusitfombe, kungakhatsaliseki kutsi kukusiphi simo. Siphindze sisuse kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngebantfu lebebatibulala nome labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kanye nemifanekiso yalokwentekako ngesikhatsi umuntfu atibulala noma atilimata. Kwatiswa lokuvunyelwe lokumayelana nekwelulama ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni, nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kodvwa lokungaba netitfombe letingacansula, (njengesilondza leselashiwe) kubekwa ngemuva kwe-screen kute kungakhubi labanye.
Nangabe bantfu bafaka noma bafuna kwatiswa kwekutibulala, kutilimata, nome kwemikhuba lengakavami yekudla, sitabacondzisa etinhlanganweni tendzawo letingabasita futsi nangabe licembu letfu leLusito Lwemacembu likhatsatekile ngengoti lengahle yenteke masinyane sitawuchumana nebelusito loluphutfumako kuleyondzawo kute sibatfolele lusito. Kute utfole imininingwane leyengetiwe, vakashela Indzawo Yekuphepha KaMeta.
Mayelana nekwatiswa lokuvela bukhoma, bocwephesha basitjele kutsi nangabe lotsite atsi ucabanga kutibulala eluhlelweni loluvela bukhoma, kufanele sikuyekele lokwatiswa sikhatsi lesidze lesingasikhona, ngoba umuntfu nakacitsa sikhatsi lesidze akhuluma kukhamera, kuba nematfuba lamanyenti ekutsi umngani noma lilunga lemndeni lishayele belusito loluphutfumako. Nobe kunjalo, kute kuncishiswe ingoti yekutsi kube nemtselela lomubi kulabanye ngekubukela lokwatiswa, sitakumisa kusakatwa kwako bukhoma lapho nje loyo muntfu sekafuna kusitsatsa mbamba lesinyatselo. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kunoma ngusiphi simo, sitawutsintsana nebelusito loluphutfumako nasitfola kutsi lotsite utatilimata ngekushesha.
Ungafaki:
Kwatiswa lokukhangisa, kukhutsate, kuchumanise, nome kunikete ticondziso tekutibulala, kutilimata, nome temikhuba yekudla lengakavami.
  • Kwatiswa lokukuveta ebaleni kutibulala, kutilimata netitfombe temikhuba lengakavami yekudla
  • Kwatiswa lokuveta umuntfu lowetame kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
  • Kwatiswa lokunake kakhulu kukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesishobele ekhatsi, noma umgogodla noma siphanga lokuphumele ngaphandle nakusakatwa nemigomo lehlobene nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokuneticondziso ngekwehla lokukhulu emtimbeni nangendlela lete imphilo nakusakatwa kanye nemigomo lehambisana nendlela yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngalabatsintsekako noma labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni noma emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami lokungenteka bayatiwa noma lokutsiwa bake betama kutibulala noma kutilimata
  • Titfombe letiveta kushintjwa kwemtimba (sibonelo: i-tattoo, kuwubhobosa, kuwudvweba, kutishaya, nalokunye) nakusakatwa kulokumayelana nekutibulala nome kutilimata
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifake secwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye. Siphindze sibeke imincele kuze kubukwe bantfu labadzala, labaneminyaka lengu-18 kuya etulu:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni kutekwelapha.
Kulokwatiswa lokulandzelako, sifaka secwayiso kute bantfu bati kutsi kungabaphatsa kabi labanye:
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma letinye titfombe tekutilimata letingatfusi letivela esimeni sekutilimata, kutibulala noma lesikhombisa kululama.
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumukile noma tiphanga nangabe lomuntfu elulama.
Sibaniketa lusito bantfu labafake lokubhaliwe noma lokushiwo ngelivi lapho bavuma khona kutsi batilimata, kufaka ekhatsi:
  • Kutibulala.
  • Kubulawa kwesigulane/kusitwa ekutibulaleni.
  • Kutilimata.
  • Kuba netinkinga tekudla,
  • Emavi langacaci lokungenteka agudlisele ekutibulaleni noma akhulume ngako (kufaka ekhatsi ema-memes noma titfombe letigciniwe letibhadalelwako letiveta kuva buhlungu lobukhulu noma kucindzeteleka) esimeni sekutibulala noma sekutilimata.
KuleTimiso Tawonkhewonkhe letilandzelako, sidzinga imininingwane leyengetiwe futsi/noma lokutsite lokufakiwe kute sitsatse sinyatselo:
  • Singawususa umlayeto wekutibulala nasesicinisekisile ngekutibulala noma kwetama kutibulala. Setama kutfola imilayelo yekwetama kutibulala sisebentisa tindlela letehlukehlukene, letifaka ekhatsi, kodvwa hhayi loku kuphela:
Inhloso Yesimiso
Sikukhatsalela kakhulu kuphepha kwebantfu labasebentisa tinhlelo tetfu. Sibonisana njalo nabocwephesha etindzabeni tekutibulala, kutilimata kanye nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami, kute sitfole kwatiswa lokutsintsa imitsetfo yetfu nekutsatsa sinyatselo, futsi sisebentisana netinhlangano letisemhlabeni wonkhe kute sinikete lusito kubantfu labacindzetelekile.
Ngisho noma singabavumeli bantfu kutsi bahalalise noma bakhutsate kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, ngemabomu nobe ngeliphutsa, siyabavumela kutsi bacoce ngaletihloko ngobe sifuna kutsi tinhlelo tetfu tibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi bafune lusito kulomunye nalomunye.
Sisusa noma ngukuphi kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, lokufaka ekhatsi kwatiswa kwebuciko njengetitfombe lesihlekisako noma umfanekiso kanye nanome ngukuphi kwatiswa kwekutilimata lokusitfombe, kungakhatsaliseki kutsi kukusiphi simo. Siphindze sisuse kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngebantfu lebebatibulala nome labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kanye nemifanekiso yalokwentekako ngesikhatsi umuntfu atibulala noma atilimata. Kwatiswa lokuvunyelwe lokumayelana nekwelulama ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni, nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kodvwa lokungaba netitfombe letingacansula, (njengesilondza leselashiwe) kubekwa ngemuva kwe-screen kute kungakhubi labanye.
Nangabe bantfu bafaka noma bafuna kwatiswa lokuhlobene nekutibulala, kutilimata, nome imikhuba lengakavami yekudla, sitabacondzisa etinhlanganweni tendzawo letingabasita futsi nangabe licembu letfu leLusito Lwemacembu likhatsatekile ngengoti lengahle yenteke masinyane sitawuchumana nebelusito loluphutfumako kuleyondzawo kute sibatfolele lusito. Kute utfole imininingwane leyengetiwe, vakashela Indzawo Yekuphepha KaMeta.
Mayelana nekwatiswa lokuvela bukhoma, bocwephesha basitjele kutsi nangabe lotsite atsi ucabanga kutibulala eluhlelweni loluvela bukhoma, kufanele sikuyekele lokwatiswa sikhatsi lesidze lesingasikhona, ngoba umuntfu nakacitsa sikhatsi lesidze akhuluma kukhamera, kuba nematfuba lamanyenti ekutsi umngani noma lilunga lemndeni lishayele belusito loluphutfumako. Nobe kunjalo, kute kuncishiswe ingoti yekutsi kube nemtselela lomubi kulabanye ngekubukela lokwatiswa, sitakumisa kusakatwa kwako bukhoma lapho nje loyo muntfu sekafuna kusitsatsa mbamba lesinyatselo. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kunoma ngusiphi simo, sitawutsintsana nebelusito loluphutfumako nasitfola kutsi lotsite utatilimata ngekushesha.
Ungafaki:
Kwatiswa lokukhangisa, kukhutsate, kuchumanise, nome kunikete ticondziso tekutibulala, kutilimata, nome temikhuba yekudla lengakavami.
  • Kwatiswa lokukuveta ebaleni kutibulala, kutilimata netitfombe temikhuba lengakavami yekudla
  • Kwatiswa lokuveta umuntfu lowetame kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
  • Kwatiswa lokunake kakhulu kukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesishobele ekhatsi, noma umgogodla logobene noma siphanga lesiphumele ngaphandle nakusakatwa nemigomo lehlobene nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokuneticondziso ngekwehla lokukhulu emtimbeni nangendlela lete imphilo nakusakatwa kanye nemigomo lehambisana nendlela yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngalabatsintsekako noma labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni noma emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami lokungenteka bayatiwa noma lokutsiwa bake betama kutibulala noma kutilimata
  • Titfombe letiveta kushintjwa kwemtimba (sibonelo: i-tattoo, kuwubhobosa, kuwudvweba, kutishaya, nalokunye) nakusakatwa kulokumayelana nekutibulala nome kutilimata
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifake secwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye. Siphindze sibeke imincele kuze kubukwe bantfu labadzala, labaneminyaka lengu-18 kuya etulu:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni kutekwelapha.
Kulokwatiswa lokulandzelako, sifaka secwayiso kute bantfu bati kutsi kungabaphatsa kabi labanye:
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma letinye titfombe tekutilimata letingatfusi letivela esimeni sekutilimata, kutibulala noma lesikhombisa kululama.
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumukile noma tiphanga nangabe lomuntfu elulama.
Sibaniketa lusito bantfu labafake lokubhaliwe noma lokushiwo ngelivi lapho bavuma khona kutsi batilimata, kufaka ekhatsi:
  • Kutibulala.
  • Kubulawa kwesigulane/kusitwa ekutibulaleni.
  • Kutilimata.
  • Kuba netinkinga tekudla,
  • Emavi langacaci lokungenteka agudlisele ekutibulaleni noma akhulume ngako (kufaka ekhatsi ema-memes noma titfombe letigciniwe letibhadalelwako letiveta kuva buhlungu lobukhulu noma kucindzeteleka) esimeni sekutibulala noma sekutilimata.
KuleTimiso Tawonkhewonkhe letilandzelako, sidzinga imininingwane leyengetiwe futsi/noma lokutsite lokufakiwe kuze sitsatse sinyatselo:
  • Singawususa umlayeto wekutibulala nasesicinisekisile ngekutibulala noma kwetama kutibulala. Setama kutfola imilayelo yekwetama kutibulala sisebentisa tindlela letehlukehlukene, letifaka ekhatsi, kodvwa hhayi loku kuphela:
Kucacisa kutsi titfombe letiveta kutilimata emtimbeni tifaka ekhatsi titfombe letiveta umuntfu atibulala noma indlela yekudla lengakavami.
Sikukhatsalela kakhulu kuphepha kwebantfu labasebentisa tinhlelo tetfu. Sibonisana njalo nabocwephesha etindzabeni tekutibulala, kutilimata kanye nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami, kute sitfutfukise timiso tetfu nekutsatsa sinyatselo, futsi tsine sisebentisana netinhlangano emhlabeni wonkhe kute sinikete lusito kubantfu labacindzetelekile.
Ngisho noma singabavumeli bantfu kutsi ngemabomu nobe ngeliphutsa, bahalalise noma bakhutsate kutibulala, kutilimata, nome kuba nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla, siyabavumela kutsi bacoce ngaletihloko ngobe sifuna kutsi tinhlelo tetfui-Facebook ibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma khona ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi bafune lusito kulomunye nalomunye.
Sisusa noma ngukuphi kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala, kutilimata , nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, lokufaka ekhatsi lokutinganekwane njengema-memes noma imifanekiso , kanye nanome ngukuphi kwatiswa kwekutilimata lokwetfusako, ngisho noma kukusiphi simo. Siphindze sisuse kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngebantfu lebebatibulala nome labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni nome emikhubeni lengakavami yekudla, kanye nemifanekiso yalokwenteka ngaleso sikhatsi umuntfu nakatibulala noma atilimata. Kwatiswa lokuvumelekile lokumayelana nekwelulama ekwetameni kutibulala, ekutilimateni, nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kodvwa lokungaba netitfombe letingabaphatsa kabi labanye,(njengesilondza lesesipholile), kubekwa ngemuva kwesecwayiso.
Nangabe bantfu bafaka noma bafuna kwatiswa lokuhlobene nekutibulala, kutilimata , nome kwemikhuba lengakavami yekudla, sitabacondzisa etinhlanganweni tendzawo letingabasita futsi nangabe licembu letfu leLusito Lwemacembu likhatsatekile ngengoti lengahle yenteke masinyane sitawuchumana nebelusito loluphutfumako kuleyondzawo kute sibatfolele lusito. Kute utfole imininingwane leyengetiwe, vakashela Indzawo Yekuphepha Ka-Facebook.
Ngalokuphatselene nalokudlala bukhoma, bocwephesha basitjele kutsi nangabe lotsite atsi ufuna kutibulala, kufanele sikuyekele lokwatiswa sikhatsi lesenele, , ngoba kulesikhatsi umuntfu lasicitsa akhuluma kukhamera, manyenti ematfuba ekutsi umngani noma emalunga emndeni ashayele belusito loluphutfumako. Noma kunjalo, kute kuncishiswe bungoti bekutsi kube nemphumela lomubi kulabanye ngekubuka lokwatiswa, sitakumisa lokudlala bukhoma esigabeni lapho lomuntfu sekakwenta mbamba. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kunoma ngusiphi simo, sitawutsintsana nebelusito loluphutfumako nasitfola kutsi lotsite utatilimata ngekushesha.
Noma kunjalo, kute kuncishiswe bungoti bekutsi kube nemtselela lomubi kulabanye ngekubuka lokwatiswa, sitakumisa lokusakata bukhoma esigabeni lapho lomuntfu sekenta lometamo. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kunoma ngusiphi simo, sitawutsintsana nebelusito loluphutfumako nasitfola kutsi lotsite utatilimata ngekushesha.
UngakufakiAsikuvumeliloku:
Kwatiswa lokukhangisa, kukhutsate, kuchumanise, nome kunikete ticondziso tekutibulala, kutilimata nome temikhuba yekudla lengakavami.
  • Kutibulala.
  • Kutilimata.
  • Imikhuba yekudla lengakavami.
  • Kwatiswa lokunesitfombe lesetfusako lesiveta kutilimata emtimbeni
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa umuntfu lowetama kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
  • Kwatiswa lokunake kakhulu kukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumele noma siphanga nakusakatwa nemigomo lehlobene nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami
  • Kwatiswa lokucuketse ticondziso ngekwehla lokukhulu emtimbeni nangendlela lengenamphilo nakusakatwa ngemigomo lehambisana nekuphatamiseka endleleni yekudla.
  • Kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngalabatsintsekako noma labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni noma emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami lokungenteka bayatiwa noma lokutsiwa bake betama kutibulala noma kutilimata
  • Titfombe letiveta kushintjwa kwemtimba (sibonelo: kutibhala, kutisika, kutibhala ngekutisika, kutishaya, nalokunye) nakusakatwa endzabeni lemayelana nekwetama kutibulala nome kutilimata
Kuphambene netimiso tetfu kuveta kwatiswa lokukhombisa umuntfu lowetame kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifake secwayisokute lokwatiswa kubonwe bantfu labadzala labangetulu kweminyaka lengu-18, futsi sifake nesecwayiso kute bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye. Siphindze sivumele kutsi lokwatiswa kubonwe kuphela bantfu labadzala labaneminyaka lengu-18 nangetulu:lokungabaphatsa kabi labanye:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni kutekwelapha.
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifaka secwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi kungase kubaphatamisekubaphatse kabi labanye:
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma letinye titfombe tekutilimata letingatfusi letivela esimeni sekutilimata, kutibulala noma lesikhombisa kululama.
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumukile noma tiphanga nangabe lomuntfu elulama.
Sibaniketa lusito bantfu labafake lokubhaliwe noma lokushiwo ngelivi lapho bavuma khona kutsi batilimata, kufaka ekhatsi:
  • Kutibulala.
  • Kubulawa kwesigulane/kusitwa ekutibulaleni.
  • Kutilimata.
  • Kuba netinkinga tekudla,
  • Emavi langacaci lokungenteka agudlisele ekutibulaleni noma akhulume ngako (kufaka ekhatsi ema-memes noma titfombe letigciniwe letibhadalelwako letiveta kuva buhlungu lobukhulu noma kucindzeteleka) esimeni sekutibulala noma sekutilimata.
KuleTimiso Tawonkhewonkhe letilandzelako, sidzinga imininingwane leyengetiwe futsi/noma lokutsite lokufakiwe kuze sitsatse sinyatselo:
  • Singawususa umlayeto wekutibulala nasesicinisekisile ngekutibulala noma kwetama kutibulala. Setama kutfola imilayeto yekutibulala sisebentisa tindlela letehlukahlukene, letifaka ekhatsi leti kodvwa hhayi tona kuphela :, imindeni noma ticelo tebameleli labasemtsetfweni, imibiko yebetindzaba, imibiko yebemtsetfo noma leminye imitfombo lesisebentisana nayo (sibonelo: tinhlangano tahulumende, nema-NGO).
    • Ticelo temindeni noma tebameleli labasemtsetfweni,
    • Imibiko levela kubetindzaba, kubemtsetfo, noma kuleminye imitfombo lesisebentisana nayo (sibonelo: tinhlangano tahulumende, ema-NGO), nomalomlayeto wekutibulala ungase futsi ususwe nangabe kubikwe kusetjentiswa Lifomu Lekuchumana Lekwatiswa Lokumayelana Nekutibulala noma Lifomu Lekuchumana Ka-Instagram.nasesinaso sicinisekiso sekutibulala noma kwetama kutibulala
Sifake lulwimi kute sicacise kutsi asitivumeli titfombe letiveta kushintjwa kwemtimba (sibonelo nje, ema-tattoo, kutibhobosa, kutidvweba, kutishaya, nalokunye) nakusakatwa endzabeni lemayelana nekutibulala nome kutilimata ngobe lesitfombe singabenta bafune kukwenta bantfu labanalowo mcabango.
Inhloso Yesimiso
Sikukhatsalela kakhulu kuphepha kwebantfu labasebentisa tinhlelo tetfu. Sibonisana njalo nabocwephesha etindzabeni tekutibulala, kutilimata kanye nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami, kute sitfole kwatiswa lokutsintsa imitsetfo yetfu nekutsatsa sinyatselo, futsi sisebentisana netinhlangano letisemhlabeni wonkhe kute sinikete lusito kubantfu labacindzetelekile.
Ngisho noma singabavumeli bantfu kutsi bahalalise noma bakhutsate kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, ngemabomu nobe ngeliphutsa, siyabavumela kutsi bacoce ngaletihloko ngobe sifuna kutsi tinhlelo tetfu tibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi bafune lusito kulomunye nalomunye.
Sisusa noma ngukuphi kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, lokufaka ekhatsi kwatiswa kwebuciko njengetitfombe lesihlekisako noma umfanekiso kanye nanome ngukuphi kwatiswa kwekutilimata lokusitfombe, kungakhatsaliseki kutsi kukusiphi simo. Siphindze sisuse kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngebantfu lebebatibulala nome labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kanye nemifanekiso yalokwentekako ngesikhatsi umuntfu atibulala noma atilimata. Kwatiswa lokuvunyelwe lokumayelana nekwelulama ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni, nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kodvwa lokungaba netitfombe letingacansula, (njengesilondza leselashiwe) kubekwa ngemuva kwe-screen kute kungakhubi labanye.
Nangabe bantfu bafaka noma bafuna kwatiswa lokuhlobene nekutibulala, kutilimata, noma imikhuba lengakavami yekudla, sitabacondzisa etinhlanganweni tendzawo letingabasita futsi nangabe licembu letfu leLusito Lwemacembu likhatsatekile ngengoti lengahle yenteke masinyane sitawuchumana nebelusito loluphutfumako kuleyondzawo kute sibatfolele lusito. Kute utfole imininingwane leyengetiwe, vakashela Indzawo Yekuphepha KaMeta.
Mayelana nekwatiswa lokuvela bukhoma, bocwephesha basitjele kutsi nangabe lotsite atsi ucabanga kutibulala eluhlelweni loluvela bukhoma, kufanele sikuyekele lokwatiswa sikhatsi lesidze lesingasikhona, ngoba umuntfu nakacitsa sikhatsi lesidze akhuluma kukhamera, kuba nematfuba lamanyenti ekutsi umngani noma lilunga lemndeni lishayele belusito loluphutfumako. Nobe kunjalo, kute kuncishiswe ingoti yekutsi kube nemtselela lomubi kulabanye ngekubukela lokwatiswa, sitakumisa kusakatwa kwako bukhoma lapho nje loyo muntfu sekafuna kusitsatsa mbamba lesinyatselo. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kunoma ngusiphi simo, sitawutsintsana nebelusito loluphutfumako nasitfola kutsi lotsite utatilimata ngekushesha.
Ungafaki:
Lokufakiwe lokutfutfukisa, lokukhutsata, lokuchumanisa, noma lokuniketa ticondziso te:
  • Kutibulala.
  • Kutilimata.
  • Tinkinga tekudla,
Lokufakiwe lokunesitfombe lesiveta kutilimata emtimbeni
Kuphambene nemitsetfo yetfu kuveta lokufakiwe lokukhombisa umuntfu lowetama kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
Lokufakiwe lokugcile ekukhombiseni timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu, noma umgogodla lokhukhumele noma siphanga nakusakatwa ngemigomo lehambisana nekuphatamiseka ekudleni
Kwatiswa lokucuketse ticondziso ngekwehla lokukhulu emtimbeni nangendlela lengenamphilo nakusakatwa ngemigomo lehambisana nekuphatamiseka endleleni yekudla.
Kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngalabatsintsekako noma labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni noma ekubeni nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla lokungenteka bayatiwa noma lokutsiwa bake betama kutibulala noma kutilimata
Loku lokulandzelako sikuvumela kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala kuphela labangetulu kweminyaka lengu-18, futsi kunesecwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni kutekwelapha.
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifaka secwayiso kute bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye:
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma letinye titfombe tekutilimata letingasito titfombe letisesimeni sekutilimata, kutibulala noma lokucuketfwe lokukhombisa kululama.
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumukile noma tiphanga nangabe lomuntfu elulama.
Sibaniketa lusito bantfu labafake lokubhaliwe noma lokushiwo ngelivi lapho bavuma khona kutsi batilimata, kufaka ekhatsi:
  • Kutibulala.
  • Kubulawa kwesigulane/kusitwa ekutibulaleni.
  • Kutilimata.
  • Kuba netinkinga tekudla,
  • Emavi langacaci lokungenteka agudlisele ekutibulaleni noma akhulume ngako (kufaka ekhatsi ema-memes noma titfombe letigciniwe letibhadalelwako letiveta kuva buhlungu lobukhulu noma kucindzeteleka) esimeni sekutibulala noma sekutilimata.
KuleTimiso Tawonkhewonkhe letilandzelako, sidzinga imininingwane leyengetiwe futsi/noma lokutsite lokufakiwe kuze sitsatse sinyatselo:
  • Singawususa umlayeto wekutibulala nasesicinisekisile ngekutibulala noma kwetama kutibulala. Setama kutfola imilayeto yekutibulala sisebentisa tindlela letehlukahlukene, letifaka ekhatsi leti kodvwa hhayi tona kuphela: imindeni noma ticelo tebameleli labasemtsetfweni, imibiko yebetindzaba, imibiko yebemtsetfo noma leminye imitfombo (sibonelo: tinhlangano tahulumende, nema-NGO).
Sishintja lokutsite esimisweni lesikhona kuze ‘imikhuba yekudla lengakavami’ ibe yincenye letimele yodvwa.
Inhloso Yesimiso
Sikukhatsalela kakhulu kuphepha kwebantfu labasebentisa tinhlelo tetfu. Sibonisana njalo nabocwephesha etindzabeni tekutibulala, kutilimata kanye nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami, kute sitfole kwatiswa lokutsintsa imitsetfo yetfu nekutsatsa sinyatselo, futsi sisebentisana netinhlangano letisemhlabeni wonkhe kute sinikete lusito kubantfu labacindzetelekile.
Ngisho noma singabavumeli bantfu kutsi bahalalise noma bakhutsate kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, ngemabomu nobe ngeliphutsa, siyabavumela kutsi bacoce ngaletihloko ngobe sifuna kutsi tinhlelo tetfu tibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi bafune lusito kulomunye nalomunye.
Sisusa noma ngukuphi kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, lokufaka ekhatsi kwatiswa kwebuciko njengetitfombe lesihlekisako noma umfanekiso kanye nanome ngukuphi kwatiswa kwekutilimata lokusitfombe, kungakhatsaliseki kutsi kukusiphi simo. Siphindze sisuse kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngebantfu lebebatibulala nome labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kanye nemifanekiso yalokwentekako ngesikhatsi umuntfu atibulala noma atilimata. Kwatiswa lokuvunyelwe lokumayelana nekwelulama ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni, nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kodvwa lokungaba netitfombe letingacansula, (njengesilondza leselashiwe) kubekwa ngemuva kwe-screen kute kungakhubi labanye.
Nangabe bantfu bafaka noma bafuna kwatiswa lokuhlobene nekutibulala, kutilimata, noma imikhuba lengakavami yekudla, sitabacondzisa etinhlanganweni tendzawo letingabasita futsi nangabe licembu letfu leLusito Lwemacembu likhatsatekile ngengoti lengahle yenteke masinyane sitawuchumana nebelusito loluphutfumako kuleyondzawo kute sibatfolele lusito. Kute utfole imininingwane leyengetiwe, vakashela Indzawo Yekuphepha KaMeta.
Mayelana nekwatiswa lokuvela bukhoma, bocwephesha basitjele kutsi nangabe lotsite atsi ucabanga kutibulala eluhlelweni loluvela bukhoma, kufanele sikuyekele lokwatiswa sikhatsi lesidze lesingasikhona, ngoba umuntfu nakacitsa sikhatsi lesidze akhuluma kukhamera, kuba nematfuba lamanyenti ekutsi umngani noma lilunga lemndeni lishayele belusito loluphutfumako. Nobe kunjalo, kute kuncishiswe ingoti yekutsi kube nemtselela lomubi kulabanye ngekubukela lokwatiswa, sitakumisa kusakatwa kwako bukhoma lapho nje loyo muntfu sekafuna kusitsatsa mbamba lesinyatselo. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kunoma ngusiphi simo, sitawutsintsana nebelusito loluphutfumako nasitfola kutsi lotsite utatilimata ngekushesha.
Ungafaki:
Lokufakiwe lokutfutfukisa, lokukhutsata, lokuchumanisa, noma lokuniketa ticondziso te:
  • Kutibulala.
  • Kutilimata.
  • Tinkinga tekudla,
Lokufakiwe lokunesitfombe lesiveta kutilimata emtimbeni
Kuphambene nemitsetfo yetfu kuveta lokufakiwe lokukhombisa umuntfu lowetama kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
Lokufakiwe lokugcile ekukhombiseni timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu, noma umgogodla lokhukhumele noma siphanga nakusakatwa ngemigomo lehambisana nekuphatamiseka ekudleni
Kwatiswa lokucuketse ticondziso ngekwehla lokukhulu emtimbeni nangendlela lengenamphilo nakusakatwa ngemigomo lehambisana nekuphatamiseka endleleni yekudla.
Kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngalabatsintsekako noma labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni noma ekubeni nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla lokungenteka bayatiwa noma lokutsiwa bake betama kutibulala noma kutilimata
Loku lokulandzelako sikuvumela kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala kuphela labangetulu kweminyaka lengu-18, futsi kunesecwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa kufa kwemuntfu ngekutibulala lafanele kungena etindzabeni.
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni kutekwelapha.
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifaka secwayiso kute bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye:
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma letinye titfombe tekutilimata letingasito titfombe letisesimeni sekutilimata, kutibulala noma lokucuketfwe lokukhombisa kululama.
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumukile noma tiphanga nangabe lomuntfu elulama.
Sibaniketa lusito bantfu labafake lokubhaliwe noma lokushiwo ngelivi lapho bavuma khona kutsi batilimata, kufaka ekhatsi:
  • Kutibulala.
  • Kubulawa kwesigulane/kusitwa ekutibulaleni.
  • Kutilimata.
  • Kuba netinkinga tekudla,
  • Emavi langacaci lokungenteka agudlisele ekutibulaleni noma akhulume ngako (kufaka ekhatsi ema-memes noma titfombe letigciniwe letibhadalelwako letiveta kuva buhlungu lobukhulu noma kucindzeteleka) esimeni sekutibulala noma sekutilimata.
KuleTimiso Tawonkhewonkhe letilandzelako, sidzinga imininingwane leyengetiwe futsi/noma lokutsite lokufakiwe kuze sitsatse sinyatselo:
  • Singawususa umlayeto wekutibulala nasesicinisekisile ngekutibulala noma kwetama kutibulala. Setama kutfola imilayeto yekutibulala sisebentisa tindlela letehlukahlukene, letifaka ekhatsi leti kodvwa hhayi tona kuphela: imindeni noma ticelo tebameleli labasemtsetfweni, imibiko yebetindzaba, imibiko yebemtsetfo noma leminye imitfombo lesisebentisana nayo (sibonelo: tinhlangano tahulumende, nema-NGO).
Inhloso Yesimiso
Sikukhatsalela kakhulu kuphepha kwebantfu labasebentisa ema-apps etfu. Sibonisana njalo nabocwephesha etindzabeni tekutibulala noma kutilimata kuze sisite imitsetfo yetfu nekutsatsa sinyatselo, futsi sisebentisana netinhlangano emhlabeni wonkhe kuze sinikete lusito kubantfu labacindzetelekile.
Ngisho noma singakuvumeli kutsi ngalokucondzile noma ngalokungakacondzi bantfu bagubhe noma bakhutsate kutibulala noma kutilimata, siyakuvumela kutsi bantfu bacoce ngaletihloko ngoba sifuna kutsi i-Facebook ibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma ngalokwenteke kubo, baphaphamise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi bafune kusekelwa kulabanye.
Kutilimata sikuchaza ngekutsi kulimata umtimba ngalokucondzile nangenhloso, lokufaka ekhatsi kutilimata nekuphatamiseka kwendlela yekudla. Sisusa noma ngukuphi kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala noma kutilimata, lokufaka ekhatsi kwatiswa kwebuciko njengesitfombe noma umfanekiso futsi nanoma ngukuphi kwatiswa kwekutilimata lokusitfombe, kungakhatsaliseki kutsi kucuketseni. Siphindze sisuse kwatiswa lokwenta tatiwe tisulu futsi lokucondziswe kuto ngendlela lekabi noma kulabo labasindzile ekutibulaleni noma ekutilimateni, ngekuhlekisa noma ngekukhuluma, kanye nemifanekiso yesikhatsi sangempela yekutibulala noma kutilimata. Kwatiswa lokuvunyelwe lokumayelana nekwelulama ekutibulaleni noma ekutilimateni, kodvwa lokungaba netitfombe letingaphatamisa, njengesibati selinceba, kubekwa ngemuva kwesecwayiso.
Nangabe bantfu bafaka noma bafuna kwatiswa lokuhlobene nekutibulala noma kutilimata, sitabacondzisa etinhlanganweni tendzawo letingabasita futsi nangabe licembu letfu leLusito Lwemacembu likhatsatekile ngengoti lengahle yenteke masinyanenakukhona lofuna kutilimata masinyane, sitawuchumana nebelusito loluphutfumako kuleyondzawo kute simtfolele lusito. Kute utfole imininingwane leyengetiwe, vakashela Indzawo Yekuphepha Ka-Facebook.
Ngalokuphatselene nalokudlala bukhoma, bocwephesha basitjele kutsi nangabe lotsite atsi ufuna kutibulala, kufanele sikuyekele lokwatiswa sikhatsi lesenele, ngoba kulesikhatsi umuntfu lasicitsa akhuluma kukhamera, manyenti ematfuba ekutsi umngani noma emalunga emndeni ashayele belusito loluphutfumako.
Noma kunjalo, kwehlisa bungoti bekutsi labanye batsintseke kabi ngekubuka lokwatiswa, sitakumisa lokusakata bukhoma esigabeni lapho lengoti igucuka ibe ngumetamo. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kunoma ngusiphi simo, sitawutsintsana nebelusito loluphutfumako nangabe sitfola kutsi lotsite ufuna kutilimata ngekushesha.
Ungafaki:
Lokufakiwe lokutfutfukisa, lokukhutsata, lokuchumanisa, noma lokuniketa ticondziso te:
  • Kutibulala.
  • Kutilimata.
  • Tinkinga tekudla,
Lokufakiwe lokunesitfombe lesiveta kutilimata emtimbeni
Kuphambene nemitsetfo yetfu kuveta lokufakiwe lokukhombisa umuntfu lowetama kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
Lokufakiwe lokugcile ekukhombiseni timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu, noma umgogodla lokhukhumele noma siphanga nakusakatwa ngemigomo lehambisana nekuphatamiseka ekudleni
Kwatiswa lokucuketse ticondziso ngekwehla lokukhulu emtimbeni nangendlela lengenamphilo nakusakatwa ngemigomo lehambisana nekuphatamiseka endleleni yekudla.
Kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngalabatsintsekako noma labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni noma ekubeni nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla lokungenteka bayatiwa noma lokutsiwa bake betama kutibulala noma kutilimata
Loku lokulandzelako sikuvumela kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala kuphela labangetulu kweminyaka lengu-18, futsi kunesecwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa kufa kwemuntfu ngekutibulala noma lowetama kutibulala lafanele kungena etindzabeni.
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni kutekwelapha.
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifaka secwayiso kute bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye:
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma letinye titfombe tekutilimata letingatfusi esimeni sekutilimata, kutibulala noma kululamakulokuveta kululama.
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu, noma umgogodla lokhukhumukile noma tiphanga nangabe lomuntfu elulama.
Sibaniketa lusito bantfu labafake lokubhaliwe noma lokushiwo ngelivi lapho bavuma khona kutsi batilimata, kufaka ekhatsi:
  • Kutibulala.
  • Kubulawa kwesigulane/kusitwa ekutibulaleni.
  • Kutilimata.
  • Imikhuba lengakavami yekudla.
  • Emavi langacaci lokungenteka agudlisele ekutibulaleni noma akhulume ngako (kufaka ekhatsi ema-memes noma titfombe letigciniwe letibhadalelwako letiveta kuba buhlungu lobukhulu noma kucindzeteleka) esimeni sekutibulala noma sekutilimata.
KuleTimiso Tawonkhewonkhe letilandzelako, sidzinga imininingwane leyengetiwe futsi/noma lokutsite lokufakiwe kuze sitsatse sinyatselo:
  • Singawususa umlayeto wekutibulala nasesicinisekisile ngekutibulala noma kwetama kutibulala. Setama kutfola imilayeto yekutibulala sisebentisa tindlela letehlukahlukene, letifaka ekhatsi leti kodvwa hhayi tona kuphela: imindeni noma ticelo tebameleli labasemtsetfweni, imibiko yebetindzaba, imibiko yebemtsetfo noma leminye imitfombo (sibonelo: tinhlangano tahulumende, nema-NGO).
Lokulungisa akusho kutsi sekunelushintjo esimisweni, kunaloko kwengeta eTimisweni Tawonkhewonkhe tekusebentela ebaleni nekuveta kancono kutsi sisitsatsa nini sinyatselo.
Inhloso Yesimiso
Sikukhatsalela kakhulu kuphepha kwebantfu labasebentisa tinhlelo tetfu. Sibonisana njalo nabocwephesha etindzabeni tekutibulala, kutilimata kanye nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami, kute sitfole kwatiswa lokutsintsa imitsetfo yetfu nekutsatsa sinyatselo, futsi sisebentisana netinhlangano letisemhlabeni wonkhe kute sinikete lusito kubantfu labacindzetelekile.
Ngisho noma singabavumeli bantfu kutsi bahalalise noma bakhutsate kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, ngemabomu nobe ngeliphutsa, siyabavumela kutsi bacoce ngaletihloko ngobe sifuna kutsi tinhlelo tetfu tibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi bafune lusito kulomunye nalomunye.
Sisusa noma ngukuphi kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, lokufaka ekhatsi kwatiswa kwebuciko njengetitfombe lesihlekisako noma umfanekiso kanye nanome ngukuphi kwatiswa kwekutilimata lokusitfombe, kungakhatsaliseki kutsi kukusiphi simo. Siphindze sisuse kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngebantfu lebebatibulala nome labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kanye nemifanekiso yalokwentekako ngesikhatsi umuntfu atibulala noma atilimata. Kwatiswa lokuvunyelwe lokumayelana nekwelulama ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni, nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kodvwa lokungaba netitfombe letingacansula, (njengesilondza leselashiwe) kubekwa ngemuva kwe-screen kute kungakhubi labanye.
Nangabe bantfu bafaka noma bafuna kwatiswa lokuhlobene nekutibulala, kutilimata, nome imikhuba lengakavami yekudla, sitabacondzisa etinhlanganweni tendzawo letingabasita futsi nangabe licembu letfu leLusito Lwemacembu likhatsatekile ngengoti lengahle yenteke masinyane sitawuchumana nebelusito loluphutfumako kuleyondzawo kute sibatfolele lusito. Kute utfole imininingwane leyengetiwe, vakashela Indzawo Yekuphepha KaMeta.
Mayelana nekwatiswa lokuvela bukhoma, bocwephesha basitjele kutsi nangabe lotsite atsi ucabanga kutibulala eluhlelweni loluvela bukhoma, kufanele sikuyekele lokwatiswa sikhatsi lesidze lesingasikhona, ngoba umuntfu nakacitsa sikhatsi lesidze akhuluma kukhamera, kuba nematfuba lamanyenti ekutsi umngani noma lilunga lemndeni lishayele belusito loluphutfumako. Nobe kunjalo, kute kuncishiswe ingoti yekutsi kube nemtselela lomubi kulabanye ngekubukela lokwatiswa, sitakumisa kusakatwa kwako bukhoma lapho nje loyo muntfu sekafuna kusitsatsa mbamba lesinyatselo. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kunoma ngusiphi simo, sitawutsintsana nebelusito loluphutfumako nangabe sitfola kutsi lotsite utatilimata ngekushesha.
Ungafaki:
Kwatiswa lokukhangisa, kukhutsata, kuchumanise, noma kunikete ticondziso taloku:
  • Kutibulala
  • Kutilimata
  • Kuba netinkinga tekudla
Kwatiswa lokunesitfombe lesiveta kutilimata emtimbeni
Ngaphandle kwasetimeni letingakavami letifanele kungena etindzabeni, kuphambene netimiso tetfu kufaka lokutsite lokuveta umuntfu lowetama kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
Kwatiswa lokunake kakhulu kukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumele noma siphanga nakusakatwa nemigomo lehlobene nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami
Kwatiswa lokucuketse ticondziso tekwehla kakhulu emtimbeni nangendlela lengenamphilo nakusakatwa kanye nalokufanele kwentiwe lokuhlobene nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla.
Kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngalabatsintsekako noma labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni noma ekubeni nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla lokungenteka bayatiwa noma lokutsiwa bake betama kutibulala noma kutilimata
Loku lokulandzelako, sikuvumela kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala kuphela labangetulu kweminyaka lengu-18, futsi kunendzawo yesecwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa kufa kwemuntfu ngekutibulala lafanele kungena etindzabeni
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni kutekwelapha
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifaka secwayiso kute bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatamise labanye:
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma leminye imidvwebo lengasiyo leyetfusako yekutilimata esimeni sekwelulama
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumukile noma tiphanga nangabe lomuntfu elulama.
Sibaniketa lusito bantfu labafake lokubhaliwe noma lokushiwo ngelivi lapho bavuma khona kutsi batilimata, kufaka ekhatsi:
  • Kutibulala
  • Kubulawa kwesigulane/kusitwa ekutibulaleni
  • Kutilimata
  • Imikhuba yekudla lengakavami
KuleTimiso Tawonkhewonkhe letilandzelako, sidzinga imininingwane leyengetiwe futsi/noma lokutsite lokufakiwe kuze sitsatse sinyatselo:
  • Singawususa umlayeto wekutibulala nasesicinisekisile ngekutibulala noma kwetama kutibulala. Setama kutfola imilayeto yekutibulala sisebentisa tindlela letehlukahlukene, letifaka ekhatsi leti kodvwa hhayi tona kuphela: imindeni noma ticelo tebameleli labasemtsetfweni, imibiko yebetindzaba, imibiko yebemtsetfo noma leminye imitfombo (sibonelo: tinhlangano tahulumende, nema-NGO).
Inhloso Yesimiso
Sikukhatsalela kakhulu kuphepha kwebantfu labasebentisa ema-apps etfu. Sibonisana njalo nabocwephesha etindzabeni tekutibulala nekutilimata kute sitfole kwatiswa lokutsintsa timiso tetfu nekutsatsa sinyatselo, futsi sisebentisana netinhlangano emhlabeni wonkhe kute sinikete lusito kubantfu labacindzetelekile.
Ngisho noma singabavumeli bantfu kutsi ngemabomu nobe ngeliphutsa, bahalalise noma bakhutsate kutibulala noma kutilimata, siyabavumela kutsi bacoce ngaletihloko ngobe sifuna kutsi i-Facebook ibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma khona ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi bafune lusito kulomunye nalomunye.
Kutilimata sikuchaza ngekutsi kulimata umtimba ngemabomu futsi ngalokucondzile, lokufaka ekhatsi kutilimata nekuba nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla. Sisusa noma ngukuphi kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala noma kutilimata, lokufaka ekhatsi lokuyinganekwane njengema-memes noma imifanekiso kanye nanome ngukuphi kwatiswa kwekutilimata lokusitfombe, ngisho noma kukusiphi simo. Siphindze sisuse kwatiswa lokwenta batiwe futsi lecondziswe kubo ngco ngendlela lekabi labatsintsekile noma labasindze ekutibulaleni noma ekutilimateni, ngendlela lengahlekisi, lehlekisako noma ngekugcizelela, kanye nekukhonjiswa kwekutibulala noma kutilimata lokwenteka mbamba ngaleso sikhatsi. Kwatiswa lokuvunyelwe lokumayelana nekwelulama ekutibulaleni noma ekutilimateni, kodvwa lokungaba netitfombe letingaphatamisa, njengesibati selinceba, kubekwa ngemuva kwesecwayiso.
Nangabe bantfu bafaka noma bafuna kwatiswa lokuhlobene nekutibulala noma kutilimata, sitabacondzisa etinhlanganweni tendzawo letingabasita futsi nangabe kukhona losengotini yekutilimata ngekushesha, sitawuchumana nebelusito loluphutfumako kuleyondzawo kute simtfolele lusito.
Ngalokuphatselene nalokudlala bukhoma, bocwephesha basitjele kutsi nangabe lotsite atsi ufuna kutibulala, kufanele sikuyekele lokwatiswa sikhatsi lesenele, ngoba kulesikhatsi umuntfu lasicitsa akhuluma kukhamera, manyenti ematfuba ekutsi umngani noma emalunga emndeni ashayele belusito loluphutfumako.
Noma kunjalo, kute kuncishiswe bungoti bekutsi kube nemphumela lomubi kulabanye ngekubuka lokwatiswa, sitakumisa lokudlala bukhoma esigabeni lapho lomuntfu sekakwenta mbamba. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kunoma ngusiphi simo, sitawutsintsana nebelusito loluphutfumako nasitfola kutsi lotsite usengotini yekutilimata ngekushesha.
Emetameni yekwenta i-Facebook ibe yindzawo lephephile, siyakususa kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala noma kutilimata, lokufaka ekhatsi titfombe letsite letetfusako, kukhonjiswa kwalokwenteka ngaleso sikhatsi, nalokuyinganekwane loko bocwephesha labasitjela kutsi kungase kubangele labanye kutsi bente intfo lefanako. Kutilimata kuchazwa ngekutsi kulimata umtimba ngemabomu futsi ngalokucondzile, lokufaka ekhatsi kutilimata uphindzelela kanye nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla. Sifuna kutsi i-Facebook ibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma khona ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi basitane ngetikhatsi letimatima, kungako sivumela bantfu kutsi bakhulume ngekutibulala nekutilimata.
Sisebentisana netinhlangano emhlabeni wonkhe kuze sisite bantfu labakhatsatekile. Siphindze sikhulume nalabacwepheshile kutekutibulala nekutilimata kuze sengete etimisweni tetfu nasekutsatseni sinyatselo. Sibonelo nje, bocwephesha baseluleke kutsi akukafaneli siwasuse emavidiyo ladlala bukhoma ekutilimata nakusenelitfuba lekutsi labaligugu kumuntfu kanye netiphatsimandla banganiketa lusito noma loko lokudzingekako.
Ngalokuphambene naloko, sisusa noma yini leyenta batiwe labatsintsekile noma labasindze ekutilimateni noma ekutibulaleni, sikususe nalokucondziswe kubo ngco ngendlela lekabi, ngekungahlekisi, ngekuhlekisa noma ngekugcizelela.
Fundza kabanti mayelana netimiso tetfu tekutibulala netekutilimata kanye nelusito lesiluniketako.
Ungafaki:
Kwatiswa lokukhangisa, kukhutsate, kuchumanise, noma kunikete ticondziso taloku:
  • Kutibulala
  • Kutilimata
  • Imikhuba yekudla lengakavami
Kwatiswa lokunesitfombe lesetfusako lesiveta kutilimata emtimbeni
Ngaphandle nangabe kusetimeni letingakavami letifanele kungena etindzabeni, kuphambene netimiso tetfu kufaka lokutsite lokuveta umuntfu lowetame kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
Kwatiswa lokunake kakhulu kukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumele noma siphanga nakusakatwa nemigomo lehlobene nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami.
Kwatiswa lokucuketse ticondziso ngekwehla lokukhulu emtimbeni nangendlela lengenamphilo nakusakatwa nemigomo lehambisana nendlela yekudla lengakavami.
Kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngalabatsintsekako noma labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni noma ekubeni netinkinga tekudla lokungenteka bayatiwa noma lokutsiwa bake betama kutibulala noma kutilimata
Loku lokulandzelako sikuvumela kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala kuphela labangetulu kweminyaka lengu-18, futsi kunesecwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa kufa kwemuntfu ngekutibulala lafanele kungena etindzabeni
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni kutekwelapha
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifaka secwayiso kute bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye:
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma leminye imidvwebo lengasiyo leyetfusako yekutilimata esimeni sekwelulama
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumukile noma tiphanga nangabe lomuntfu elulama.
Sibaniketa lusito bantfu labafake lokubhaliwe noma lokushiwo ngelivi lapho bavuma khona kutsi batilimata, kufaka ekhatsi:
  • Kutibulala
  • Kubulawa kwesigulane/kusitwa ekutibulaleni
  • Kutilimata
  • Imikhuba yekudla lengakavami
KuleTimiso Tawonkhewonkhe letilandzelako, sidzinga imininingwane leyengetiwe futsi/noma lokutsite lokufakiwe kuze sitsatse sinyatselo:
  • Singawususa umlayeto wekutibulala nasesicinisekisile ngekutibulala noma kwetama kutibulala. Setama kutfola imilayeto yekutibulala sisebentisa tindlela letehlukahlukene, letifaka ekhatsi leti kodvwa hhayi tona kuphela: imindeni noma ticelo tebameleli labasemtsetfweni, imibiko yebetindzaba, imibiko yebemtsetfo noma leminye imitfombo lesisebentisana nayo (sibonelo: tinhlangano tahulumende, nema-NGO).
Inhloso Yesimiso
Sikukhatsalela kakhulu kuphepha kwebantfu labasebentisa tinhlelo tetfu. Sibonisana njalo nabocwephesha etindzabeni tekutibulala, kutilimata kanye nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami, kute sitfole kwatiswa lokutsintsa imitsetfo yetfu nekutsatsa sinyatselo, futsi sisebentisana netinhlangano letisemhlabeni wonkhe kute sinikete lusito kubantfu labacindzetelekile.
Ngisho noma singabavumeli bantfu kutsi bahalalise noma bakhutsate kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, ngemabomu nobe ngeliphutsa, siyabavumela kutsi bacoce ngaletihloko ngobe sifuna kutsi tinhlelo tetfu tibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi bafune lusito kulomunye nalomunye.
Sisusa noma ngukuphi kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala, kutilimata nome imikhuba yekudla lengakavami, lokufaka ekhatsi kwatiswa kwebuciko njengetitfombe lesihlekisako noma umfanekiso kanye nanome ngukuphi kwatiswa kwekutilimata lokusitfombe, kungakhatsaliseki kutsi kukusiphi simo. Siphindze sisuse kwatiswa lokuhlekisa ngebantfu lebebatibulala nome labasindze ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kanye nemifanekiso yalokwentekako ngesikhatsi umuntfu atibulala noma atilimata. Kwatiswa lokuvunyelwe lokumayelana nekwelulama ekutibulaleni, ekutilimateni, nome emikhubeni yekudla lengakavami, kodvwa lokungaba netitfombe letingacansula, (njengesilondza leselashiwe) kubekwa ngemuva kwe-screen kute kungakhubi labanye.
Nangabe bantfu bafaka noma bafuna kwatiswa lokuhlobene nekutibulala, kutilimata, noma imikhuba lengakavami yekudla, sitabacondzisa etinhlanganweni tendzawo letingabasita futsi nangabe licembu letfu leLusito Lwemacembu likhatsatekile ngengoti lengahle yenteke masinyane sitawuchumana nebelusito loluphutfumako kuleyondzawo kute sibatfolele lusito. Kute utfole imininingwane leyengetiwe, vakashela Indzawo Yekuphepha KaMeta.
Mayelana nekwatiswa lokuvela bukhoma, bocwephesha basitjele kutsi nangabe lotsite atsi ucabanga kutibulala eluhlelweni loluvela bukhoma, kufanele sikuyekele lokwatiswa sikhatsi lesidze lesingasikhona, ngoba umuntfu nakacitsa sikhatsi lesidze akhuluma kukhamera, kuba nematfuba lamanyenti ekutsi umngani noma lilunga lemndeni lishayele belusito loluphutfumako. Nobe kunjalo, kute kuncishiswe ingoti yekutsi kube nemtselela lomubi kulabanye ngekubukela lokwatiswa, sitakumisa kusakatwa kwako bukhoma lapho nje loyo muntfu sekafuna kusitsatsa mbamba lesinyatselo. Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kunoma ngusiphi simo, sitawutsintsana nebelusito loluphutfumako nasitfola kutsi lotsite utatilimata ngekushesha.
Ungafaki:
Kwatiswa lokukhangisa, kukhutsate, kuchumanise, noma kunikete ticondziso taloku:
  • Kutibulala
  • Kutilimata
  • Imikhuba yekudla lengakavami
Kwatiswa lokunesitfombe lesetfusako lesiveta kutilimata emtimbeni
Ngaphandle kwasetimeni letingakavami letifanele kungena etindzabeni, kuphambene netimiso tetfu kufaka lokutsite lokuveta umuntfu lowetama kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
Kwatiswa lokunake kakhulu kukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumele noma siphanga nakusakatwa nemigomo lehlobene nemikhuba yekudla lengakavami
Kwatiswa lokucuketse ticondziso ngekwehla lokukhulu emtimbeni nangendlela lengenamphilo nakusakatwa nemigomo lehambisana nendlela yekudla lengakavami.
Loku lokulandzelako sikuvumela kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala kuphela labangetulu kweminyaka lengu-18, futsi kunesecwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa kufa kwemuntfu ngekutibulala lafanele kungena etindzabeni
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni kutekwelapha
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifaka secwayiso kute bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye:
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma leminye imidvwebo lengasiyo leyetfusako yekutilimata esimeni sekwelulama
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumukile noma tiphanga nangabe lomuntfu elulama.
Sibaniketa lusito bantfu labafake lokubhaliwe noma lokushiwo ngelivi lapho bavuma khona kutsi batilimata, kufaka ekhatsi:
  • Kutibulala
  • Kubulawa kwesigulane/kusitwa ekutibulaleni
  • Kutilimata
  • Imikhuba yekudla lengakavami
KuleTimiso Tawonkhewonkhe letilandzelako, sidzinga imininingwane leyengetiwe futsi/noma lokutsite lokufakiwe kuze sitsatse sinyatselo:
Singawususa umlayeto wekutibulala nasesicinisekisile ngekutibulala noma kwetama kutibulala. Setama kutfola imilayeto yekutibulala sisebentisa tindlela letehlukahlukene, letifaka ekhatsi leti kodvwa hhayi tona kuphela: ticelo temindeni noma ticelo tebameleli labasemtsetfweni, imibiko yebetindzaba, imibiko yebemtsetfo noma leminye imitfombo lesisebentisana nayo (sibonelo: tinhlangano tahulumende, nema-NGO).
Inhloso Yesimiso
Emetameni yekwenta i-Facebook ibe yindzawo lephephile, siyakususa kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala noma kutilimata, lokufaka ekhatsi titfombe letetfusako, kanye nekukhonjiswa kwalokwenteka ngaleso sikhatsinalokuyinganekwane loko bocwephesha labasitjela kutsi kungase kubangele labanye kutsi bente intfo lefanako. Kutilimata kuchazwa ngekutsi kulimata umtimba ngemabomu futsi ngalokucondzile, lokufaka ekhatsi kutilimata uphindzelela nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla. Sifuna kutsi i-Facebook ibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma khona ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi basitane ngetikhatsi letimatima, kungako sivumela bantfu kutsi bakhulumisane ngekutibulala nekutilimata.
Sisebentisana netinhlangano emhlabeni wonkhe kuze sisite bantfu labakhatsatekile. Siphindze sikhulume nalabacwepheshile kutekutibulala nekutilimata kuze sengete etimisweni tetfu nasekutsatseni sinyatselo. Sibonelo nje, bochwephesha baseluleke kutsi akukafaneli siwasuse emavidiyo ladlala bukhoma ekutilimata nakusenelitfuba lekutsi labaligugu kumuntfu kanye netiphatsimandla banganiketa lusito noma loko lokudzingekako.
Ngalokuphambene naloko, sisusa noma yini leyenta batiwe labatsintsekile noma labasindze ekutilimateni noma ekutibulaleni sikususe nalokucondziswe kubo ngco ngendlela lekabi, ngekungahlekisi, ngekuhlekisa noma ngekugcizelela.
Fundza kabanti mayelana netimiso tetfu tekutibulala nekutilimata kanye nelusito lesiluniketako.
Ungafaki:
Kwatiswa lokukhangisa, kukhutsate, kuchumanise, noma kunikete ticondziso taloku:
  • Kutibulala
  • Kutilimata
  • Imikhuba yekudla lengakavami
Kwatiswa lokunesitfombe lesetfusako lesiveta kutilimata emtimbeni
Ngaphandle nangabe kusetimeni letingakavami letifanele kungena etindzabeni, kuphambene netimiso tetfu kufaka lokutsite lokuveta umuntfu lowetame kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
Kwatiswa lokukhombisa kakhulu timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumukile noma siphanga nakusakatwa kanye nalokufanele kwentiwe lokuhlobene nekuba nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla.
Kwatiswa lokucuketse ticondziso tekwehla kakhulu emtimbeni nangendlela lengenamphilo nakusakatwa kanye nalokufanele kwentiwe lokuhambisana nekuba nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla.
Loku lokulandzelako, sikuvumela kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala kuphela labangetulu kweminyaka lengu-18, futsi kunendzawo yesecwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa kufa kwemuntfu ngekutibulala lafanele kungena etindzabeni
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni kutekwelapha
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifaka secwayiso kute bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatamise labanye:
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma leminye imidvwebo lengasiyo leyetfusako yekutilimata esimeni sekwelulama
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa timbambo, ematsambo langasentsanyeni, tikhala letisematsangeni, tingculu, sisu lesifocokile, noma umgogodla lokhukhumukile noma tiphanga nangabe lomuntfu elulama.
Sibaniketa lusito bantfu labafake lokubhaliwe noma lokushiwo ngelivi lapho bavuma khona kutsi batilimata, kufaka ekhatsi:
  • Kutibulala
  • Kubulawa kwesigulane/kusitwa ekutibulaleni
  • Kutilimata
  • Imikhuba yekudla lengakavami
Inhloso Yesimiso
Emetameni yekwenta kutsi i-Facebook ibe yindzawo lephephile, siyakususa kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala noma kutilimata, lokufaka ekhatsi titfombe letetfusako nemidvwebo yalokwenteka ngaleso sikhatsi, leto bocwephesha labasitjela kutsi tingase tibangele labanye kutsi bente intfo lefanako. Kutilimata kuchazwa ngekutsi kulimata umtimba ngemabomu futsi ngalokucondzile, lokufaka ekhatsi kutilimata uphindzelela kanye nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla. Sifuna kutsi i-Facebook ibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma khona ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi basitane ngetikhatsi letimatima, kungako sivumela bantfu kutsi bakhulumisane ngekutibulala nekutilimata.
Sisebentisana netinhlangano emhlabeni wonkhe kuze sisite bantfu labakhatsatekile. Siphindze sikhulume nalabacwepheshile kutekutibulala nekutilimata kuze sengete etimisweni tetfu nasekutsatseni sinyatselo. Sibonelo nje, bochwephesha baseluleke kutsi akukafaneli siwasuse emavidiyo ladlala bukhoma ekutilimata kutilimatanakusenelitfuba lekutsi labaligugu kumuntfu kanye netiphatsimandla banganiketa lusito noma loko lokudzingekako.
Ngalokuphambene naloko, sisusa noma yini leyenta batiwe labatsintsekile noma labasindze ekutilimateni noma ekutibulaleni sikususe nalokucondziswe kubo ngco ngendlela lekabi, ngekungahlekisi, ngekuhlekisa noma ngekugcizelela.
Fundza kabanti mayelana netimiso tetfu tekutibulala nekutilimata kanye nelusito lesiluniketako.
Inhloso Yesimiso
Emetameni yekwenta kutsi i-Facebook ibe yindzawo lephephile, siyakususa kwatiswa lokukhutsata kutibulala noma kutilimata, lokufaka ekhatsi titfombe letsite letetfusako kanye netitfombe talokwenteka ngaleso sikhatsi leto bocwephesha labasitjela kutsi kungase kubangele labanye kutsi bente intfo lefanako. Kutilimata kuchazwa ngekutsi kulimata umtimba ngemabomu futsi ngalokucondzile, lokufaka ekhatsi kutilimata uphindzelela kanye nemikhuba lengakavami yekudla. Sifuna kutsi i-Facebook ibe yindzawo lapho bantfu bangakhuluma khona ngalokwenteke kubo, bacwayise labanye ngaletindzaba, futsi basitane ngetikhatsi letimatima, kungako sivumela bantfu kutsi bakhulume ngekutibulala nekutilimata. Sikhutsata bantfu kutsi basite labanye futsi bafune lusito kulabanye mayelana naletihloko letimatimabaphindze bafune lusito kulomunye nalomunye, kungako sivumela bantfu kutsi bakhulume ngekutibulala nekutilimata.
Sisebentisana netinhlangano emhlabeni wonkhe kuze sisite bantfu labakhatsatekile. Siphindze sikhulume nalabacwepheshile kutekutibulala nekutilimata kuze sengete etimisweni tetfu nasekutsatseni sinyatselo. Sibonelo nje, bochwephesha baseluleke kutsi akukafaneli siwasuse emavidiyo ladlala bukhoma ekutilimata nakusenelitfuba lekutsi labaligugu kumuntfu kanye netiphatsimandla banganiketa lusito noma loko lokudzingekako.
Ngalokuphambene naloko, sisusa noma yini leyenta batiwe labatsintsekile noma labasindze ekutilimateni noma ekutibulaleni sikususe nalokucondziswe kubo ngco ngendlela lekabi, ngekungahlekisi, ngekuhlekisa noma ngekugcizelela. Kodvwa-ke, bantfu bangahlephulelana lwati mayelana nekutilimata nekutibulala kuze bente labanye bayinake lendzaba futsi bente kutsi kube nekucocisana ngayo, kuphela nje nangabe bangakukhangisi noma bangakukhutsati kutilimata noma kutibulala.
Fundza kabanti mayelana netimiso tetfu tekutibulala nekutilimata kanye nelusito lesiluniketako.
Ungafaki:
Kwatiswa lokukhangisa, kukhutsate, kuchumanise, noma kunikete ticondziso taloku:
  • Kutibulala
  • Kutilimata
  • Imikhuba yekudla lengakavami
Kwatiswa lokumayelana nekutilimata lokuneticubulo tekukhangisa letite tecwayiso leticacile naletingakukhutsati kutilimata
Kwatiswa lokunesitfombe lesetfusako lesiveta kutilimata emtimbeni
Ngaphandle nangabe kusetimeni letingakavami letifanele kungena etindzabeni, kuphambene netimiso tetfu kufaka lokutsite lokuveta umuntfu lowetama kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
Loku lokulandzelako sikuvumela kutsi kubonwe bantfu labadzala kuphela labangetulu kweminyaka lengu-18, futsikukhona nesecwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kuphatamisekubaphatse kabi:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa kufa kwemuntfu ngekutibulala lafanele kungena etindzabeni
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni kutekwelapha
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifaka secwayiso kute bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye:
  • Kwatiswa lokukhombisa tigameko takadzeni tekutilimata njengelinceba lekusikeka leselaphola noma leminye imidvwebo lengasiyo leyetfusako yekutilimata esimeni sekwelulama
Sibaniketa lusito bantfu labafake lokubhaliwe noma lokushiwo ngelivi lapho bavuma khona kutsi batilimata, kufaka ekhatsi:
  • Kutibulala
  • Kubulawa kwesigulane/kusitwa ekutibulaleni
  • KutilimataKutilimata
  • Imikhuba yekudla lengakavami
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lapho khona kunelinceba lekusikeka linye noma ngetulu lekutilimata esitfweni semtimba futsi inhloso lenkhulu yaleso sitfombe kube kuveta linceba linye noma ngetulu lelingakapholi lekusikeka
Sisandza kwenta lushintjo endleleni lesitsatsa ngayo sinyatselo ngetimiso tetfu letimayelana nekutibulala nekutilimata. Sihlanganise bocwephesha labehlukehlukene bemhlabeni wonkhe labaseluleke kutsi letinye titfombe letetfusako tekutilimata, ikakhulukati kutisika, tingaba sematfubeni ekukhutsata kutilimata tingakacondzi ngisho noma tisakatwa ngenjongo yekukhombisa kuvuma kukwenta noma luhambo lwekuyofika ekululameni. Ngaleso sizatfu, sisusela kulabasitjela kona, asisativumeli titfombe letetfusako tekutilimata ngisho noma ngabe titekuvuma kukwenta, njengobe kuvela enhlosweni yetimiso tetfu letimayelana nekutibulala nekutilimata.
Ungafaki:
Kwatiswa lokukhangisa, kukhutsate, kuchumanise, noma kunikete ticondziso taloku:
  • Kutibulala
  • Kutilimata
  • Imikhuba yekudla lengakavami
Kwatiswa lokumayelana nekutilimata lokuneticubulo tekukhangisa letite tecwayiso leticacile naletingakukhutsati kutilimata
Ngaphandle nangabe kusetimeni letingakavami letifanele kungena etindzabeni, kuphambene netimiso tetfu kufaka lokutsite lokuveta umuntfu lowetame kutibulala noma lofe ngekutibulala
Kuloku lokulandzelako, sifake secwayiso kuze bantfu bati kutsi lokwatiswa kungase kubaphatse kabi labanye:
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa kufa kwemuntfu ngekutibulala lafanele kungena etindzabeni
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lakhombisa umuntfu lowaba nesandla ekubulaweni kwesigulane/lowasita ekutibulaleni kutekwelapha
Sibaniketa lusito bantfu labafake lokubhaliwe noma lokushiwo ngelivi lapho bavuma khona kutsi batilimata, kufaka ekhatsi:
  • Kutibulala
  • Kubulawa kwesigulane/kusitwa ekutibulaleni
  • Kutilimata lokucondzile
  • Imikhuba yekudla lengakavami
  • Titfombe noma emavidiyo lapho khona kunelinceba lekusikeka linye noma ngetulu lekutilimata lokucondzile esitfweni semtimba futsi inhloso lenkhulu yaleso sitfombe kube kuveta linceba lelingakapholi lekusikeka linye noma ngetulu
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